I belong to a fortunate group of humans whose basic physiological needs are consistently met.
Because of this, I’ve had the time and ability to experience bouts of existential and identity crisis.
Because of this, I have developed a passion for Personal Development, Philosophy, and Psychology.
…But who cares about that, let’s get straight to the point.
I am weird. You are weird. We need each other to survive. So we might as well not be terrible.
Oh, and our minds are omnipotent…. So let’s treat them as such.
Here’s a collection of articles on how to channel our weirdness in a way that improves our quality of life.
Don’t feel like reading? Check out this article in Podcast form HERE (Available on all podcast platforms including Spotify and Apple. Just search “Conversations with Chesa”) The Super Bowl is coming up and… you know this. And the only way you might not know it is if you have been walking around with cotton balls in
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A few months ago I attended a dance showcase titled “Not a Label” put on and choreographed by my sister Marlaina via her dance company, Mirror Image. The powerhouse intro exemplified the message expressed in the title - That we are not our labels. Each dancer approached the front of the stage with a sheet of paper clipped